You can know someone all your life without really knowing them. Getting to know someone beneath the surface is something that most people don’t often do. I know I don’t. It takes more than being an acquaintance to say that you really know someone. Over the summer I became acquainted with someone from my work. Just the fact that she already completed a year at NAU made me determined to get to know her. The end of summer came and differing work schedules made it impossible to get to know her.
School started and opportunities to get to know each other began to appear. This acquaintance became a friend. A busy semester proved it hard to hang out regularly, however a 45+ hour work week over Winter Break proved to be the right amount of time to get to know someone.
Before coming back up to school, Jenny was my 2nd friend I was able to come out to. This moment of extreme openness is what opened our friendship up to anything and everything. Since break, Jenny has been the person I call if I need advice, someone to vent to, someone to listen to me, and someone to eat with. Just two days ago we hung out for 14 hours, I don’t know if I can say I have ever spent that much time with a friend.
An acquaintance formed into a friendship, which formed to something even closer. Her personality has influenced me in many ways. I am fairly sure I can say she is one of the only people I know who cannot be mean, at all. Her easygoing and relaxed personality has HOPEFULLY started to wear off on me. Learning to deal with stress and stupid people is something I know I need to work on.
It’s funny knowing that Jenny will be reading this, but I’ll be glad she has. She is someone I have known for almost 10 months, but I have really only known these past 3. I can only look forward to these next years of friendship.

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